“What men and women need is encouragement. Their natural resisting powers should be strengthened, not weakened…. Instead of always harping on a man’s faults,tell him of his virtues. Try to pull him out of his rut of bad habits. Hold up to him his better self, his REAL self that can dare and do and win out! … The influence of a beautiful, helpful, hopeful character is contagious, and may revolutionize a whole town…. People radiate what is in their minds and in their hearts. If a man feels kindly and obliging, his neighbors will feel that way, too, before long.But if he scolds and scowls and criticizes—his neighbors will return scowl for scowl, and add interest! … When you look for the bad, expecting it, you will get it. When you know you will find the good—you will get that…”
~ Eleanor H. Porter
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What a wonderful quote, I have not read any of this author’s works but I’ll need to give her a read! Thank you for sharing this, she is absolutely right that you get from others what you give.
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Hi Jamie, Pollyanna is the only book I’ve read by her, but I loved it. She had such a refreshingly positive approach to life!